The following are unscripted stories documenting my experiences as a mommy. I write about all the things I am passionate about, faith, family and frugality. Welcome to Mommyville.
Monday, April 18, 2011
Monday Multitudes 838-848
Feelings help us identify what is going on in our lives and all around us. But, feelings can be our enemy, too. If we dwell in them too long or lose perspective by thinking of how we feel about something. We can get stuck and focus on past failures, here and now struggles and the fear of what may come. How can we get out of this funk? Take our eyes off ourselves and set them on the Lord. As we look to God's greatness and goodness, His Spirit infuses us with hope about what He will do in our lives!
Having been a patient of chemotherapy where I visited the infusion center twice monthly, I can relate to the power of the word. I pray that I will be infused by the healing power of the Holy Spirit to change my attitude.
Today Lord I have so many blessings. Help me to focus on You and not me;
a few new reads; Made to Crave by Lysa Terkeurst, that was written for me I think, Run like a Mother by Dimity McDowell, and Divine by Karen Kingsbury, my new favorite author
a schedule too busy to realize I am a single mom this week
making quilt tops with wonderful neighbors
finding the time to listen to my ipod and be infused
holding my tongue, Lord give me strength to not say the words that I feel
apoligizing for losing my temper and being forgiven by a two year old, "It's okay, mom are you a happy mom now?"
biting my tongue, it is just those evil feelings getting in my way, I need an infusion
friends who ask how I am and really care about my answer, I wish I was half the friend my friends are to me
chewing on my tongue, Lord thank you for teaching me patience and helping me not fly off the handle
sibling dish doers who do not argue while they wash, rinse, dry and put away...they earned four scoops of ice cream for getting along so well
Sunday morning breakfast with the family
soft blankets and cuddly toddlers
mint oreos :)
Monday, April 04, 2011
Monday Multitudes 822-837
Who would have thought that Monday would be the "new" Friday? Our weekends have been so full it sure is nice to have a Monday to relax a bit.
I was able to experience an amazing event this weekend. It was spectacular. It was called Faith Girlz and featured author Nancy Rue. If you have a daughter age 9-13ish you should really check out faithgirlz.com. I took Maleah and it was a wonderful event for both of us. They are on a world tour currently and came to little old Sioux Falls, SD. There are lots of clubs around the nation for girls called GEMS, girls everywhere meeting their Savior. It reminds me of Girl Scouts or 4-H with the emphasis on Scripture. The girls do community outreach, earn badges and learn how to communicate with others by following the example of "Who's your Daddy?" JESUS. Nancy Rue is a pretty spectacular speaker, I can't wait to read some of her books. If you have a girl you should really check out her stuff. I am new to this, but I would recommend her in a heartbeat. Thanks so much to my friend Janel for inviting me.
This week I am thankful for so much including but not limited to;
sunshine, sunshine, sunshine and more sunshine with a little wind mixed in
Aunt Tracy and time for her to spend with my kids who adore her
an early release day that allowed dad to take the kiddos to Grandma's and me to get a little Sensible Sister shopping done
warmer mornings that allow me to get outside
quality time with my nine year old, Nancy Rue's books and a safe place for Maleah to go online
a few spare moments to make slippers
milky way treats
piano recitals
an awesome group of Sensible Sisters
a freezer full of yummy food
a summer full of exciting opportunities
time at Grandmas to play and run
a nice Sunday morning breakfast
a family movie night with popcorn
awesome grocery sales on food that is good for my family
Monday, March 28, 2011
Monday Multitudes 799-821
The concept of death makes us feel uncomfortable. We fear it because not one of us knows how or when we will die. Fortunately, the most reassuring news in the universe brings hope to our fears. Jesus, the only person who has experienced death and lived to tell about it, promises eternal life in heaven with God to all who trust in Him!
On this day that the Lord has made I am thankful for;
a family who has learned lessons about death and is now all the more knowledgeable and a little less afraid
a busy weekend full of fun family activities
time to spend with friends
time to spend with family
banana bread with cream cheese frosting
cards and notes of sympathy and thanks for my husband
a fun project for my husband to keep him busy this spring
having a job just blocks from my home when the price of gas is rising
plenty of recent work for my husband so we can pay the bills
a full session for the supper club again this month
a wonderful smart, sensible sister to share
a warm place to be on cold spring nights like this one
the hint of a Bible study in the works
a piano recital piece that is finally coming together
homemade gifts
time to braid my daughters hair
supper with extended family
breakfast with Grandma and Grandpa after church
running with Maleah
the Gavinator's endless quest for understanding of the world around him
little girls that still want to cuddle sometimes
Monday, February 28, 2011
Monday Multitudes 783-798
My morning devotional compared meditating to cows chewing their food twice. It is sort of disgusting but very applicable when thinking about how we should bring those words back into our brains to rethink about them or meditate on them. I hope you have some time today to chew on God's Word.
Today, I am thankful for;
everyone back at school/work and mostly healthy again
a fun party Saturday night with family and friends
family breakfast at Grandma Bonnie's on Sunday
morning workouts
a sister who is super organized
the hope and faith of healing for JoAnn, Robert, Gertie, Karlyn, Larry, Steve, Rosalyce
a great Dr. Seuss day in the works, my kids love Dr. Seuss day and are uber excited
coupons for "real" food that is good for you
a slight warm up outside
the light at the end of potty training, I hope
kids who love to read and read and read so much that books get wet, stained and bent because they go everywhere the kids do
recipes that my family loves and the kids will eat AND are good for you
a neighbor who loves fabric, yarn and making things as much as I do, a mentor and a friend
local grocers that work with sisters to provide quality foods for families
a new website for a dear friend and a new day to renew her design journey
Monday, February 07, 2011
Monday Multitudes 763-782
These past few weeks have been crazy. The weather and my busy schedule has really cut into my usually quiet winter. Life is FULL. That is a good thing.
I am so very blessed. Really more than I can fathom. But here are a few blessings I can count from the last week or so...
snow days with my whole family home
a house that is heated and warm
a Bible that waits for me to open it
friends who support me
an amazing sister
a niece who is a wonderful last minute sitter
a friend's mom who returned home from a lengthy hospital stay
time to finally send get well cards
time to do the taxes
time to read books with the girls
a few more scarves made
time to teach the kids some crafts
time to grocery shop with my sister
a husband who supports my craziness
a superintendent that brings my sick child home from school when I have two others under the weather here
not getting sick myself...yet
a fun school booster sandwich making event where I fought with some cheese slices
enjoying a Sunday with nothing to do
an amazing group of women, including my mother and my sister, who made cooking even more fun

Monday, January 24, 2011
Monday Multitudes # 748-762
Work at living in peace with everyone, and work at living a holy life, for those who are not holy will not see the Lord. Look after each other so that none of you fails to receive the grace of God. Watch out that no poisonous root of bitterness grows up to trouble you, corrupting many. Hebrews 12:14-15.
PEACE
This week in first grade they are celebrating peace week. I love the idea of celebrating peacefulness, isn't it kind of oxymoronic? Celebrating peacefulness. Party of peace? Keeping the peace is a lot more difficult to do than to say. I lose my peace moments after I wake up. How can you keep a family of six in peace? It is an undertaking. I sometimes feel like a referee all day long. No wonder I am exhausted by suppertime. LOTS of times I give in and give up the peace along with the whole lot. But, I have found that if I can just hold on to that quiet voice and keep the peace my day goes a lot smoother. I wear my emotions on my sleeve. I could never play poker, I can't keep my happiness or my sadness hidden. It IS a poisonous root, really. That root grows deep and all of my kids have stemmed from my root. Sometimes we have happy, sad, mad and goofy all at the same time in the same room. I get stressed out trying to make everyone even and calm at the same time, and my root digs deeper.
This verse is a reminder for me to work at it. It is not easy, but it is necessary. Everyone deserves to feel the grace of God! I challenge you to keep the peace this week.
Lord you bless me with so much everyday. Today I am very thankful for;
ice packs for when I sub for kindergarten p.e. class and the lesson plan involves scooters (the ice was not for me, but my knees could have used them)
sisters with amazing ideas and abilities especially when a 'new' plan is in the works
warm houses when it is cold outside
family movie night
sister in laws who babysit and wear out my kids with fun and games and baking
little girls who fall asleep in the popcorn bowl (see above for clarification)
husbands who are proud of their sons even when they don't really know the sport
sons who are beaming with pride from a first and second place award
friends who make my exercising accountable and easier to swallow
computers that work just enough to let you blog (therapy) and check email
a pile of new yarn that needs to be played with just as soon as I ice my wrist... again
neighbors who call to invite you for dinner and don't care that your kids drag mud all over their house
cars that start and get us from point a to point b without breaking down, we passed several on the side of the road this weekend
brother in laws that give you a ride home from the wrestling meet when your husband ditches you for football
found hershey bars in the back of the cabinet that, mixed with a jar of pb, make a nice treat for stressed out mommies, at least this mommy...
Monday, December 20, 2010
Monday Multitudes #718-739
Coffeemakers bought on black Friday that FINALLY arrive in the mail... mmmm coffee.
Clean white streets in the morning and the joy it brings.
Sunday night Christmas programs that include handmade costumes, angels, shepherds, kings, and baby Jesus.
Treat bags filled with fruit.
Christmas cookies and hot apple cider with red hots.
Getting dressed up for church in dresses I found for $3 on clearance.
Sunday morning hymn sings in church followed by sermons that blow me away!
Watching the kids wrap gifts for their teachers and friends. Then watching them present the gifts. Seeing the joy in their face as they give instead of receive.
Anticipating time with family this weekend.
Birthday preparations for Maleah on Wednesday and baby Jesus on Saturday.
Giving plates of cookies away. Bye bye yummy calories.
Healthy, happy kids.
Projects getting completed in the house.
An ice shack that may be put to use this year.
A new recipe for birthday treats. I am gonna change this one up with some flax seed!
For my Aunt Patty and her battle with the bully.
For my sister Josie and her amazing ability to help me with anything I need help with...no matter what.
For my brother Ben and his amazing talent of making things.
For my dear dear friend Gene. I am not sure what my life would be without him. My family is so blessed to have Grandpa Geno. I don't tell him enough how much me means to me.
My wonderful, adorable, hard working and even harder playing husband whom I love dearly but have not gotten a Christmas present for.
Being content and even excited that my present will be watching my babies open gifts, hug grandparents and sing Silent Night. It will be the greatest gift of all.
Merry Christmas everyone!
Monday, December 13, 2010
Monday Multitudes #680- 717 (long overdue)
I am back to crunching the numbers.
This week I am so very thankful for;
the amazing and wonderful joy of motherhood
piano recitals
decorating the tree with family
hanging up lights in 40 degree weather
dancing to Christmas songs
packages in the mail
workout buddies who plan cookie exchanges
kids singing songs at the program with all their heart and soul (I am talking about you Andy:))
monogrammed stockings
Christmas cookies that look great even if they took me all day
advent calendars
snow days with dad at home
sledding for hours and then
drinking hot cocoa
parties with great women
tasting some new wine flavors
gift exchanges
cookie exchanges (worth mentioning again)
grandma's birthday and her extended vacation with her sisters (a snowstorm blessing)
Aunt Patty's health and safe travel for Mom and Aunt Pam
JoAnn's return home
a cleaner house than last month
a warm garage for dad to do projects in
Christmas cards that are almost ready to mail
breakfast with grandpa
crocheting again, this time a new scarf for me and my sissy
a baby that takes after her daddy (remind me to post about her)
roast beef in the crock pot
cookies in the freezer
a paycheck to deposit
a very special birthday present just waiting for grandma
an organized baking cupboard
a clean car even though the doors are frozen shut
seeing a familiar face at the mall
the nativity on the piano
watching the girls put on a 'show'
a full DVR for when I get a chance to watch
a son who enjoys the kitchen as much as I do
In spite of the many benefits God has blessed us with, how many times do we complain about little difficulties and trials? We lose sight of the big picture and fail to appreciate the really important things. Just as we cannot benefit from a wrapped gift under a Christmas tree until we open it, so gratitude can be seen as our way of opening the gift of God's love intended by all the small and big positive events of our lives.
Ronda De Sola Chervin
Monday, November 22, 2010
Monday Multitudes #668-679
It is Monday again. Here we are at the end of the year again. This morning we got a dusting of the pretty white stuff, in fact, it is still falling. Now it really is beginning to look like the holidays around here. This week I pray that everyone stays safe and warm and 'full' both physically and spiritually.
The blessings are pretty amazing around here especially when you sit down and think about them for a few moments.
a full pantry thanks to triple coupons and my smart sis
warm socks on cold mornings
falling snow
safe travel on icy roads
time with friends
plans for family time
father and son fun hunting
a big sister who plays all day with her little sisters
a fun day out with my own sister grocery shopping and couponing 101
cold walks to keep on moving
cookie recipes just waiting to be tried
turkey defrosting
What are your gifts today?
Monday, November 15, 2010
Monday Multitudes #652-667
Life group devotions
safe travel for family
no broken bones
new paint
accountability with my a.m. movers
surprise church breakfast that was yummy
a full cookie jar
time with family
warm oatmeal and hot coffee
time to clean a little bit
no snow yet
potty training success
friends
lots of fun deals to bargain shop
a season of thankfullness
Monday, November 08, 2010
Monday Multitudes #637-651
the beautiful November weather
an awesome group of friends to 'move' with who didn't wince a bit when I needed to move the time to even earlier in the morning
a handyman husband
a freezer full of baked goods
a weekend with good naps for the little girls
a great day celebrating my entrance into this world
children who are intelligent and love to learn and read
a rapid recovery for dear friends
several packed pews on Sunday
a new identification
time to spend with grandma
my own forgiveness and the ablitity to forgive others
semi-sweet chocolate chips and spoonfuls of peanut butter
girls who take the time change to a whole new level, but still manage to make me smile
Have a blessed week, will ya?
Monday, November 01, 2010
Monday Multitudes #623-636
Especially;
beautiful children
good weather
a fun group of friends to spend time with
a long overdue conversation with a sister in law
prayers for health and happiness
a nice bridal shower for a beautiful young bride to be
time to laugh
feeling better even if just a little bit
friends who trick or treat for salsa :)
healing for JoAnn and Harriet
time with family
demolition of the kitchen wall
a sale on m&ms
I count every blessing even the tiny chocolate ones :)
Monday, October 25, 2010
Monday Multitudes #609-622
I haven't had my coffee yet this morning and we are in full swing with birthdaypallooza. Addison turns three today. She was a real miracle conceived a month after chemotherapy and born whole, healthy and amazingly wonderful. I still have a hard time believing she is mine.
Today, Lord, I have so much to be thankful for. So much more than on this simple list. I am blessed. Ridiculously blessed beyond recognition. I am blinded by all the wonderful gifts you have given me.
a family birthday party with wonderful fellowship and food
a bountiful church supper and country store and most importantly a wonderful time had by all
time for dad to hunt
time for me to attempt to make a puppy costume for Maleah
my sister to come and "rescue" my puppy costume, Jo - you are amazing!
"new" doors
beautiful fall weather
good friends, really awesome spectacularly wonderful friends and even better family!
good health
healing for mom, JoAnn, Harriet, Janel, Pat,and Jack
someone to walk with who keeps me accountable for moving
the strength to bake a cake and finish a puppy costume today, Lord, please
a busy week, again
Monday, October 18, 2010
Monday Multitudes #590-608
For I will pour water on the the thirsty land, and streams on the dry ground; I will pour out my Spirit on your offspring, and my blessing on your descendants. Isaiah 44:3
Blessings flowing around here include but are not limited to the following;
a two year old who was so excited to put her coins in the birthday bank at church
cupcakes baked by daddy, missing a key ingredient, but it was the thought that counted
a chilly football game, but an exciting win with some surprising plays
cinnamon coffee, yum
friends who have been great at encouraging my strength and helping me move again
good health, thank you Lord for our health and for doctors who help us regain it
a hand that is healing, slowly but surely
fall decorations around the house
cookies baking
candles burning
sweatshirts and socks and slippers and blankets
beautiful leaves
getting a few birds this weekend with Shiloh
precious time with grandmas
faith, even with a diagnosis of the bully, for a dear friends mom
healing for Harriet, Janel, JoAnn, my children and my hand
a grocery trip, finally, and a fridge stocked (once again) with yogurt, baby oranges (clementines) and real butter :)
being able to type again, slowly...
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Monday Multitudes #575- 589 (on a Tuesday:))
Hebrews 11:1
Monday, September 20, 2010
Monday Multitudes #553-573
For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: not of works, lest any man should boast. Ephesians 2:8-9
Lord, I thank you for all your blessings this week especially;
babies, Joshua just born, and those who are just beginning to grow
birthdays, family and others who celebrated this week, Happy Birthday Ryan, Chad, Shannon, DeAnn, Michele and happy anniversary to my brother and his wife!
last minute invites to camp for the weekend
fishing from the shore and eating the fresh catch for lunch
a potty trained almost 3 year old, AMEN!, she just decided she was ready
a church rummage that helped motivate me to clean some closets
heaters and warm clothes and campfires in the cold, cold evenings
friends, all of them, I am so blessed
invites to grown up birthday parties
families, Lord, especially those who are struggling with health issues or mourning the death of a loved one
safe travel
a clean garage
homemade birthday cards for daddy
a walking partner, support to keep going
sunshine for a few hours
fly swatters
peanut butter cup smores, YUM
orange pumpkin cake with cream cheese frosting
being the same age as my husband, even if it is short lived :)
garage sales with mom
Monday, September 13, 2010
Monday Multitudes #534-552
By my God I can leap over a wall. Psalm 18:29 (said by David) God does not lift a man over a wall God helps a man when he takes a leap :) Move mountains... leap walls HE has got us covered, AMEN!
Hello Monday my old, old, friend.
Today, Lord I am in awe of your amazing glory, strength, power and love.
Thank you Lord, especially for;
telephones that wake me up just in time to get the kids to school - suffering a bit of campground lag this a.m.
perch that bite on kids hooks like mad
a television that I was dead set against in the camper that I watched Sunday morning worship Main Street Living, Pastor Spiehs from Wolsey had a wonderful message about the lost sheep
a patient husband as I read the weekend away...531 pages of patience, thanks honey
an oven in the camper that makes warm gooey brownies to help him be patient
Lake Herman, wow, what a beautiful place in this world
bike trails, hikes, and playgrounds to fill unplugged weekends with memories I am not a camper/outdoorsy person and this weekend was really pleasant
a bathtub in the camper to wash fish mongrels in:)
a safe surgery procedure for my lovely friend Harriet, may God speed your recovery
a prayer on 9/11 for those who died, and those who love those who died, and those who found those who died
an evening at my brother in law's, a beautiful home improvement in the works
a new battery for the truck so we could go camping
signs of fall
an evening run (W7D1) even though I was too tired to do it
a shout out to the village garden and grandpa Ray
a home for Lesley
a scale that doesn't fib and the threat of an oncologist appointment later this week to make me stick to it. Please Lord let him have positive encouraging words to say to me
no more suffering for JoAnn, prayers for her family as she ended her battle with the bully this morning Most faithful God, lively is the courage of those who hope in You. Your servant JoAnn suffered greatly, but placed her trust in Your mercy. Confident that the petition of those who mourn pierces the clouds and finds an answer, we beg You, give rest to JoAnn. Do not remember her sins, but look upon her sufferings and grant her refreshment, light, and peace. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Monday, September 06, 2010
Monday Multitudes # 523-533
Therefore, if any one is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has passed away, behold, the new has come. 2 Corinthians 5:17
More than 500 blessings counted since November...
finishing an early morning (secret) run just before the downpour
homecoming, a caveman, a hippie and a green dinosaur school bus
feeding exotic animals
riding a camel
an impulse bbq at grandma's house
sisters who know how to stop leaking pipes
husbands who fix plumbing using a photo I took with a cell phone
a pastor who doesn't mind an almost three year old going up for communion, twice
Monday, August 30, 2010
Monday Multitudes # 502-522
feeling really lucky and wondering if we should purchase a lottery ticket and then remembering it's not luck...it's faith and hope and was already planned out a long time ago
everything works like it should...even better than we thought it would
celebrating some much needed family time together
relishing in the plan that the Lord has for us...thanking Him for his goodness and mercy and for giving us a wonderful weekend full of blessings and surprises :)
Monday, August 23, 2010
Monday Multitudes # 471-501
This morning I am thankful for;
lots of red tomatoes, give me the burst of energy I need to can them
same with the cucumbers
a worship service still ringing in my ears
healthy kids
a break from the heat coming
little girls with curls
kids reading books to each other
kids who can make their own breakfast
leftovers for lunch
kids who can help fold laundry
sisters who call just to listen to my house noise
kids who are excited about the first day of school
grocery stores that are near so I can get the milk I forgot to get
Popsicles
coffee with cream
mountains of laundry that will wait
the computer for a getaway
emails from friends
time to think
remembering to do my blessing list
tears
more tears
playing in the sandbox with the girls
dresses made from pillowcases
time to pray
fair memories
getting to know my nieces and nephews better
unexpected thank you gifts
hugs from friends
being the greatest sometimes - this was Pastor's message yesterday